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On Taking Affirmative Action & Responsibility Of Our Lives

So, when a theme becomes repetitive in my life I feel a responsibility in a sense to shout it from the rooftops! I personally am in a total transitional phase in my life - there is a major shift going on in love, career and family life and I can attribute nearly all of it to the shift in my mind and how I have been taking control of what serves me and I have been releasing what doesn't. The transformation within me did NOT happen over night and it will not occur this way in you either; however, it all starts with taking personal responsibility. And before I delve any further into this topic - I will tell you right now that I don't have it all figured out and this is a topic that needs constant attention and divine nurturing.

We all have the power to live the life that we have always dreamed of, fall in love with the person that we have manifested in our minds and feel at peace knowing that our lives truly fulfill us - we ALL deserve this. But along with deserving this, we must be courageous with how we walk through our lives and be conscious of what thoughts we allow to flow through our beautiful minds. I will give you a perfect, personal example - I left an abusive relationship in October of 2016. Since I left, I sought to find what was missing from the marriage that drained me of my spirit. I searched for what I lacked for the 7+ years that I spent in that situation and couldn't find even an ounce of what my soul craved which was really that one person who would be man enough to grab hold of my heart and let me know that we could march forth together and face any obstacles that will be hurled our way. It was almost immediately when I gave up on my search for my other half when the one who I truly feel is meant to occupy that space in my life walked into my life. It was just like that; he walked into my life and instead of dimming my flame, he helped me to burn brighter. I allowed him into the depths of who I am, stripped naked of everything that I have worn around as a suit of armor for the passed 8 years of my life, partially feeling vulnerable at becoming so transparent in the eyes of someone new but at the same time ready to be loved and treated like a queen.

The purpose of all of my rambling? Manifest what you want - close your eyes and imagine it, feel all the feelings associated with what it is that you really desire. Next is simple, make space in your life for what you want, clear out old patterns and people that no longer serve you or your purpose. Take control over your thoughts and the energies of the people that you allow to flow through your life.
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